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What Being on Bed Rest is Really Like:

What Being on Bed Rest is Really Like:

So you were told by your Doctor that Bed Rest is what’s Best for you and Baby. Questions swirling around this unwanted statement from your doctor could be: What does that mean? How Long will I be on Bed Rest? Will I get to stay 

5 Helpful Ways to Support a NICU Family

5 Helpful Ways to Support a NICU Family

5 Ways You can Help Out while Mom and Dad are in the NICU with baby. We don’t plan on being in the NICU and therefore usually have not made any plans for siblings, taking care of the house, paying bills, etc… I had tremendous 

Lets Talk About PreTerm Labor

Lets Talk About PreTerm Labor

What is PreTerm Labor? What does that mean for me and what does that mean for my baby?

Lots of questions can swirl around in your head about the thought of preterm labor. For me, I asked: Why is this happening? What is about to Happen? And, What does this mean for my baby?

We go to doctors appointments, we read books, talk to family and friends about pregnancy, due date, birth, and baby. One thing that is not discussed in length if its even talked about at all is What Happens if I go into Preterm Labor.

Some things that we really need to discuss so we are properly prepared for the best possible outcome if PreTerm Labor happens is:

-What is PreTerm Labor?

-What are some signs I need to look for?

-Who do I call and where do I go into PreTerm Labor?

-What Happens if I go into PreTerm Labor?

Lets creat a plan between Mom, Dad, Doctor and Hospital as to the procedure that should take place.

One of the scariest things in Life is the UnExpected!

Lets get down to the nitty-gritty and eliminate the unknown by answering these questions:

What is PreTerm Labor?

PreTerm Labor is defined as: Labor before 37 weeks when your body starts preparing itself for labor.

What are the signs of PreTerm Labor I need to Look for:

– Backache, usually in your lower back. This one is tricky because if your pregnant your back hurts period but this type of Backache should be different than in earlier pregnancy.

-Contractions every 10 minutes, may even be more often

-Need to “Nest” early on. We hear about that burst of energy we get just before baby is due which gives us the need to get the house ready for baby’s arrival. This could mean baby is coming

-“Lightening” this is when you feel your baby drop lower in the your pelvis.

-Discharge mucus whether its brownish or red in color, this could mean your cervix is opening up. This could lead to your water breaking which could be a gush or even a slow and steady trickle.

-Cramping (this could be a big one) in your lower abdomen and feel like menstrual cramps. Maybe accompanied by diarrhea.
-Flu-like symptoms – nausea, vomiting or diarrhea. This one you need to call your doctor right away.

Full disclosure you may have all of these symptoms, one of these symptoms or even a very slight symptom that you think you can brush off. If there is anytime in our lives to be overly sensitive with a heightened sense of our bodies its when we are pregnant. Never and I repeat NEVER feel like you shouldn’t call your doctor if for nothing else than to get some relief that what your experiencing is normal. Or that you need to come in right away. These 9 months you are doing the most important job of you life.

What happens if I have any of the above symptoms?

If you think you have any of the above symptoms call your doctor right away. He/She will either tell you to come into the office or go to the hospital. One thing to remember and I know its hard try and stay calm and lessen your anxiety.

What happens if I go into PreTerm Labor?

One scenario is that you will be put on bed rest. You may be on bed rest at home with doctors orders as to how much you should stay in bed. Or you maybe put on hospital bed rest in the Antepartum Wing. I was put on hospital bed rest for 3 days sent home for 3 nights and then had excessive bleeding and went back to the hospital and stayed another 4 nights before having my little Micropreemie.

Other options for someone who goes into preterm labor: If your cervix is opening sometimes the doctor can put a cerclage, cervical stitch. The idea is that this would prevent your cervix from opening any more.

Medicine to stop contractions can also be given. As well as medicine for the baby to help develop the babies lungs if birth is imminent.

More Information can be found at the below link from WebMD:

https://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/premature-labor#1

At my 20 week ultrasound visit my doctor found that my cervix was opening and I was dilated to a 3. Unfortunately I was not able to get a cerclage because of how far I was already dilated. However, I did not have any other symptoms up to that point.

I was sent to the hospital where they monitored the babies heartbeat and gave me IV fluids. Because bedrest has become somewhat of a controversial topic. Some doctors believe bedrest has not shown any benefit to preventing PreTerm birth. I was sent home to continue on bed rest the best I could with a almost 2 year old toddler at home.

Three nights later at 5am I woke up with a gush of blood and immediately went straight back to the hospital. Once again the babies heartbeat was monitored and I was put on an IV, but this time I was on strict bedrest no getting up for the bathroom or a shower.

She stayed put for 4 more nights. At some point within those 4 nights I ended up getting an infection (hospital stay & infections goes hand in hand, am i right) so i was put on antibiotics. Later I was told that because I had an infection that my body told my baby to jump start those lungs, which is one aspect we credit to her survival.

Lets Talk more about PreTerm Labor! What’s your story? Lets share so that others in this situation can read details from other Moms and better recognize possible symptoms!

 

Weather the Storm with My Top 10 NICU Quotes

Weather the Storm with My Top 10 NICU Quotes

Top 10 Quotes Moms and Dads Need to Hear While in the NICU For most parents having your new baby in the NICU was not in the “Birth Plan”. These quotes can help every parent, grandparent and siblings with the Journey that is the NICU! 

What It Felt Like To Hold My MicroPreemie for the First Time?

What It Felt Like To Hold My MicroPreemie for the First Time?

Holding your baby for the first time should feel like the best thing in the world. You have had 9 months of blissful pregnancy! You are OH SO READY to hold that precious 7lb baby. Take him or her with you to the Mother/Baby wing 

The Walk

The Walk

Some of the hardest moments have happened to me while walking. It’s hard to WALK to the NICU everyday and even harder to Walk out of the NICU everyday. This Post is dedicated to that WALK!

As you drive into the dark and cold parking garage. Round and round and round frantically looking for a parking spot. Any Parking Spot! In such a hurry to get to your little one to see them and get an update from the nurse, the Neonatologist, Cardiologist…Anyone. No parking on the first level, nope not the second, the third, the forth. One spot left on the fifth level. Knowing full well when you go to leave the hospital your going to, by that time, forget what level your on….AHHH. And if this wasn’t such a tiring time you may have been (or maybe you are, i was not) smart enough to snap a photo of what level and what spot your car is in. But nonetheless I never thought of that and searched for my car on multiple occasions when i was tired and worn out and also torn about leaving my baby (in capable hands, nonetheless its still hard) and coming home to my toddler and husband.

You’ve found a parking spot, WHEW. Getting out of my car I load up my arms with my bag, milk i have pumped the night before and this morning and clean bottles for a day full of pumping before the trek to the hospital. Now, in nothing less than a Speed Walk, you tear through the parking garage and into the hospital. Down the long overly bright white corridor that seems like the longest walk of my life. Straight down the hall I can see the doors and the sign above the doors “Neonatal Intensive Care Unit” and my heart sinks, Every Day it sinks to my stomach and as I swallow it gets stuck deep in my throat! My pace hasn’t slowed at all I’m still tearing down that long white cold hallway. Although my thoughts have slowed. I think to myself “What am I going to hear and see when I open those doors.”, “Is she okay.”, “Is she still in the same spot or has she been moved.”, “Are the lab results we have been waiting on in yet.”, “Has the doctor seen her this morning.” “Is she okay.”.

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Almost to the doors by now, open them and see the smiling faces, always smiling, from the ladies at the desk that check your badge before opening the heavy doors into the NICU. A big red line on the floor that reads “Stand Behind this Line” and you WAIT. These are the SLOWEST doors in the world. OPEN. OPEN. OPEN. In your hast you step forward, I’m going for it. Nope, they close back. Darn! You Step behind the line, okay lets try this again. Lean back and smile at the lady “I didn’t make it”. Try again, this time waiting until they are all the way open. Finally, Success! Round the corner and another long white corridor. Anxiety riddled and walking as stiff and fast as possible. I check the large white erase board as I enter the NICU, Yes she is still in the same spot. I see her Day Nurse, I smile, she smiles. Okay, She’s Okay!

Courtney Stensrud

Although we don’t always get that smile from the nurses as we enter the NICU we almost always get a smile from someone passing by and that can lift our spirits. What was your best moment as you entered the NICU, and how did you feel?

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USA Today Article by Ashley May

USA Today Article by Ashley May

USA Today https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2017/11/14/mom-delivers-earliest-premature-baby-ever-and-chooses-resuscitate-miracle-aughter-now-healthy-toddle/861386001/ Mom pleads with doctor to resuscitate baby delivered at 21 weeks. ‘Miracle’ daughter is now a healthy toddler Ashley May The earliest premature baby to survive after delivery is now a healthy toddler. The infant girl, who wasn’t named because of family 

Today Article by A. Pawlowski

Today Article by A. Pawlowski

Today Article

https://www.today.com/health/born-21-weeks-she-may-be-most-premature-surviving-baby-t118610

‘Miracle baby’: Born at 21 weeks, she may be the most premature surviving infant
Nov. 9, 2017 at 11:48 AM A. Pawlowski TODAY

The baby girl weighed less than a pound when she was born just 21 weeks into Courtney Stensrud’s pregnancy. Infants that tiny and undeveloped aren’t expected to survive outside the womb, but her mother insisted that she be resuscitated.

The Texas girl — who is now 3 — appears to be making medical history.

Her doctors believe she is the most premature surviving baby ever reported. Her case means they can no longer say death is certain for babies delivered at 21 weeks’ gestation, “though it remains highly probable,” wrote Dr. Kaashif Ahmad, a MEDNAX-affiliated neonatologist at the Pediatrix Medical Group of San Antonio, this month in the journal Pediatrics.

“I feel blessed that we were given this little miracle baby,” Stensrud, 35, told TODAY. She declined to share her daughter’s name or current photos, but said the girl is “doing great” and doesn’t have any medical issues or disabilities.

The child’s fate seemed much grimmer in 2014.

Courtesy Courney Stensrud
The baby girl is 3 weeks old in this picture. “When she was born her eyes were still fused shut. This photo was from the day her eyes opened,” her mom Courtney Stensrud said. Her wedding ring is on the baby’s right arm.

Stensrud and Dr. Ahmad first met in the delivery room of a San Antonio hospital minutes after Stensrud gave birth. The 14.5-ounce baby — who was lying on her stomach still attached by the umbilical cord — was due in November, but it was only July. “It was shocking to see a living, breathing person that small,” she recalled.

Stensrud went into early labor after experiencing premature rupture of membranes and chorioamnionitis, an infection of the placenta and the amniotic fluid. She had a few moments to research whether a baby born that early could live and knew it wasn’t possible.

“But when I was holding a live baby in my arms, I just absolutely thought she could survive. I felt it in my heart,” Stensrud said.

When Ahmad found out the pregnancy was estimated to be just 21 weeks and four days along, he quickly counseled her about the baby’s dire prospects. Infants delivered before 22 weeks’ gestation are too premature to survive, he said. Their lungs are so underdeveloped that it’s near impossible to deliver oxygen into their bodies.

Even at 22 weeks, breathing tubes may not be small enough to fit into a preemie’s airway and ventilators may not provide small enough breaths for their tiny lungs. The blood vessels in their brains are so fragile that they’re prone to break and cause large bleeds into the brain, Ahmad said.

The possible consequences: cerebral palsy, difficulty walking or running, the loss of part or all of their vision and learning disabilities. They may face severe health problems for the rest of their lives.

Obstetric and pediatric societies recommend against trying to resuscitate such small infants, the Pediatrics paper explains. Such efforts “may be considered futile or not in the best interests of the child” because it’s extremely rare for babies born this premature to survive without “significant” neurologic consequences, the American Academy of Pediatrics notes.

Stensrud needed to make a fast decision about her daughter’s fate.

“As he was basically telling me there was nothing they could do, I said, ‘Will you try?’” Stensrud said.

“My answer was, ‘If you would like us to try then I’m absolutely happy to try’… knowing that there were no guarantees,” Ahmad recalled.

After doctors clamped the baby’s umbilical cord, he placed her under an overhead warmer to raise her body temperature and placed a breathing tube into her airway.

“From that point, she gradually responded. She turned pink. Within a few minutes, she began to make efforts to breathe and then she began to move,” he recalled. “They work miracles,” Stensrud said.

The baby was whisked to the neonatal intensive care unit and spent about four months in the hospital. She finally came home three days before her original due date in November 2014.

Today, she’s “she’s happy, full of energy and full of life” and keeps right up with her 4-year-old brother, Stensrud said.

When her motor and language skills were evaluated last year, she did well compared to other children her age, Ahmad said. She does not have cerebral palsy. Mild cases can be first diagnosed at 3-5 years of age, but doctors don’t have reason to believe she will have cerebral palsy later, he added.

But people need to be very cautious about concluding from a single case that routinely resuscitating babies born in the 21st week of gestation is the best approach, Ahmad warned. Don’t assume one positive outcome will be the outcome for other infants, he noted.

Still, Stensrud said she feels hopeful other babies in a similar situation will be given a chance at life, like her daughter was. And she wants other parents to know survival is possible.

“The reason I’m doing these interviews — it’s not for me, it’s not for my daughter. It’s for that mother in antepartum who is frantically searching online — that she will have a little bit of hope and faith that she can have the same outcome,” she said.

CNN Article by Jacqueline Howard

CNN Article by Jacqueline Howard

CNN Article https://www.cnn.com/2017/11/08/health/premature-baby-21-weeks-survivor-profile/index.html Born before 22 weeks, ‘most premature’ baby is now thriving (CNN)Courtney Stensrud and her husband call their fun-loving, spunky daughter a miracle. The now 3-year-old girl was born at just 21 weeks and four days gestation. “She may be the most premature